Sandra took me to lunch to celebrate our first anniversary – counted from our first kiss. She gave me three options and a deadline to make my choice. We ended up having an Indian banquet at a restaurant in Mercado del Rio, an upmarket food court we’d been to during the week after we met. The food was great and the company spectacular, and we followed it up with an hour in a park watching clouds get darker, and listening to a nearby group singing harmonies.